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Enjoying BDSM as a disabled person

Disability And BDSM: Enjoying Kink In The Best Way Possible

By Elena From TenShades & Me Making Disability And BDSM Work Firstly, a huge thank you to the wonderful Mistress Claudia Sky for inviting me to share my story, and to talk about disability and BDSM, some of the ways that we can accommodate disability and other health conditions in our kink play. My name […]

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Why no limits in BDSM isn't healthy

Why No Limits In BDSM Isn’t Healthy

By Mistress Claudia Sky No Limits in BDSM: What It Really Means There is a particular kind of message I receive, usually from someone new, occasionally from someone who should know better. It arrives in my inbox dressed up as an offering. I have no limits, Mistress. I will do anything. I understand the impulse.

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What is a male Mistress called? Mistress Claudia Sky discusses

What Is a Male Mistress?

By Male Mistress Claudia Sky This one of those questions that asks at least three different questions at once. This should answer all the queries for those searching what is a male mistress. Some people type it into a search bar because they are new to the world of kink and want terminology. They have

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Does seeing a TV Dominatrix make me gay? Mistress Claudia Sky discusses

Does Seeing a TV Dominatrix Make You Gay?

By TV Dominatrix Mistress Claudia Sky You’re In Good Company. One in three men has fantasised about a transgender partner*. Most of them have never told anyone. You might be one of them. You found your way here — to my website, my words, my photographs. Something held your attention. And then, at some point,

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Can I date a dominatrix? Mistress Claudia Sky explains

Can I Date a Dominatrix?

The Truth According To Mistress Claudia Sky Can I date a dominatrix? It’s a question many ask. The answers may be too honest for some. This is probably one of those questions people search most quietly — usually after a session that felt like more than they expected. There was a connection. There was conversation.

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The truth about men who dress as women

What Attracts People To Men Who Dress As Women & Why

By Mistress Claudia Sky There’s a significant number of men who are attracted to other men who dress as women — specifically, guys who present as feminine. Crossdressers. TVs. Transvestites. Ladyboys. Sissies. The labels vary. What they share is a presentation: deliberately, effortfully, beautifully feminine, in a way that most men simply never bother to

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Ami Kinky? Mistress Claudia sky asnwers

Yay! You’re A Kinkster – Join The Club

By Mistress Claudia Sky The Moment Your Realised You Were Kinky If you’ve ever found yourself quietly Googling am I kinky at an odd hour — hello. You’re in the right place. Welcome. Am i Kinky? Probably but what exactly is a kinkster? Let’s use the term kinkster as a broad, cheerful, non-judgmental umbrella for

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Dominatrix Claudia Sky offers online mistress training remote UK, USA everywhere

Online Mistress Training For Submissives: What You Actually Need

By Mistress Claudia Sky You Didn’t Come Here By Accident. People searching for Online Mistress Training eventually end up here. Perhaps you’ve been searching. Watching porn. Consuming content that gets you there and then leaves you exactly where you started. Wanting more. Wanting something different. Not quite knowing what that something is. I do. You’re

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Femme Presenting Dominatrix vs All The Other Labels

I’m Femme Presenting. The Devil In The Detail People want to know what I am. Not always directly. Sometimes it’s in the careful phrasing of an enquiry, the question that circles something they’re not quite sure how to name. What they’re really asking is: which box do you belong in? I understand the impulse. The

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